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When One of You Wants More Sex Than the Other

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It’s one of the most common reasons couples land on my couch, and one of the hardest to say out loud: we want sex differently. One partner initiates and gets turned down, again, and starts to feel unwanted. The other feels pressured and watched, and wants it even less. Both are lonely. Neither is wrong. […]